Swingers and Adult Dating Guide
There are a multitude of variations as to what swinging means. People also have
different view on swingers. Some don't feel the need to swing, and are against them just as much as they are towards
those who are attracted to the same sex. Swinging could be deemed as wife swapping or partner swapping but nowadays its more specific.Basically swinging occurs when a married couple or committed couple has sexual activities with another couple, or multiple couples or maybe even an individual. This tends to happen in the same room as each other.Although separate of different rooms is also considered the same.
Swinging is fun and a rewarding experience, you get to meet a lot of people and do a lot of things to them. Being a swinger is not just about the sex - swinging is a way of life. Swinging is a a popular recreational activity for broad minded adults. The most common method is an adult male female couple, meeting other couples for sex and sometimes ongoing intimate relationships
Having researched into the industry based on internet conducted questions the following information was found on adult dating and swinging
- 60% said that swinging improved their relationship; 1.7% said swinging made their relationship less happy. Approximately 50% of those who rated their relationship "very happy" before becoming swingers maintained their relationship had become happier.
- 90% of those with less happy relationships said swinging improved them.
- Almost 70% of swingers claimed no problem with jealousy; approximately 25% admitted "I have difficulty controlling jealousy when swinging" as "somewhat true", while 6% said this was "yes, very much" true.
- Swingers rate themselves happier ("very happy": 59% of swingers compared to 32% of non-swingers) and their lives more "exciting" (76% of swingers compared to 54% of non-swingers) than non-swingers, by significantly large margins.
It can be a bit daunting entering into a new scene,
especially if it's not something you have done before but always had a interest in, also to pluck up the courage to actually meet new people and start sexual "games" with people you
do not know, or it could be that you get there and you do know them. I suggest you try at least to have a proper conversation (even on the phone) with those you are intending on meeting for adult dating, unless you are seeking a one night stand - but you need to ensure that all parties involved are fully aware of your intentions. Bit like your first ever date, are you a person who would sleep on a first date?
Try not to meet in a secluded location, make sure other people are around makes both parties feel more comfortable, try and meet somewhere you will know and is not too close to home to be followed.
One important factor just like with anything be honest, if its your first time say so! Last thing anyone wants is to be led along the garden path only to find out its not true. If you need a bit of Dutch courage then that's ok, but beware of going over the top. Nobody wants to swing with people who can't stand up, and you men will know the consequences of too much alcohol.
Main thing as well is to respect each others privacy, no one wants to know everyone's business and if part of the reason you are doing this is to make new friends then it may be best to change names so things like this you may not want all of your friends knowing.
Swinging is fun and a rewarding experience, you get to meet
a lot of people and do a lot of things to them, its not just about the sex though, its a way of life.Swinging is a popular recreational activity for broad minded adults. The most common method is an adult male & female couple, meeting other couples for sex and sometimes ongoing intimate relationships.
Swinging may be erotic, exciting and fulfilling as you want it to be. It allows you to explore your favourite fantasies safely. You and your partner may engage in private, intimate sexual activity, share someone in a threesome, enjoy with another couple, or engage in group swinging, all in the space of an evening. You may make new friends, and meet interesting people. It may also enhance your personal life and relationship; it may give you a positive feeling about your self and your partner.
Here are a few rules which need to be followed, for happy swinging, although they are not written in stone, but intended more a general understanding of people into the swinging lifestyle, consider them more of a swinging etiquette.
Do be truthful and honest. Do talk to your partner; let them know your feelings.
Do be yourself
Do decide what your needs are, your interests and desires
Do tell other people what your needs, interests and desires are
Do use Protection
Do try new things that are within your limits
Do move at your own pace and do not be rushed by other people
Do reply even if it's to say 'no thanks'
Do some research into adult dating and swinging
Do have fun and enjoy the experience
Do not be rude
Do not be vague about your desires
Don't tell lies
Don't try to cross other people's limits
Don't cheat, you may get found out
Don't ever give out personal information, wait until you are comfortable with them
